How do you know what is “enough”?

Catherine Andrews
7 min readFeb 7, 2021
Photo by Joanna Kosinska on Unsplash

How do I know I’ve done enough? That I am enough? That this is enough?

This article is cross-posted from my weekly newsletter, The Sunday Soother, a newsletter about clarity, intention, and useful tips for creating more meaning in your life that goes out every Sunday morning. Subscribe here. I am also a coach who works with sensitive people so they can stop second-guessing, make decisions confidently and live the life they’ve always dreamed of. You can learn more about working with me here.

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These were the questions that started pinging my inbox, one by one, when I shared some prompts and thoughts about the inner critic on my Instagram recently, eventually turning into a steady flood.

I had done a poll on what course folks wanted me to create next, and had thrown in a course on the inner critic almost as an afterthought.

It got almost three times as many votes as any of the other options.

Intellectually, of course, I know that people struggle with inner critics but I hadn’t realized it was so prevalent amongst my audience. (I’m not sure why, since my journey with my inner critic has been a defining part of my life, but sometimes I miss this stuff in others.)

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Catherine Andrews

Teaching awakening + healing through vulnerability + self-compassion. Finding hope in a messy world. Author of the Sunday Soother. http://catherinedandrews.com