I’m 43 years old

Some thoughts from this year.

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Happy Sunday, Soothers. I turned 43 this week, and here are some thoughts.

Nothing matters timeline wise, except that shame tells us it should. I’m 43, and happily partnered yet happily unmarried. I’m 43 and happily childfree, though until about age 37 I was obsessed with the idea of having a kid; looking back, mostly realizing because I thought I should and everybody else was…